I'm so proud to be a Philadelphian, and always have. Philly is tough, rugged, blue collar, and we like it that way. Having experienced my own share of failures and disappointments, I especially appreciate the story line of Nick Foles. By now, you know that before the season Nick thought about giving up on his NFA dream. Someone, along the way, told him not to, and thank God they did. Nick shined, and delivered Philadelphians a Super Bowl victory. Click here to read more.
It reminds me of how important it is for people to have cheerleaders. As human beings, we all have doubts and struggles, regardless of what your facebook page says, a line from Nick Foles himself.
Action Step: Find someone in your world who needs a word or two of encouragement. The key is to ask good questions, and simply listen. Take deep breath and let them know you believe in them, especially when they are your kids.
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The NBA season began this week, and basketball players are looking forward to playing ball. Regardless of the age or level of play, there are three simple things to remember when playing or trying out for a team.
1. Stand out
Find a way to stand out in a positive way. Use your voice and talk to your teammates. Be loud! "I got ball", "Help left", "Shot" are just a few things that all players can say when playing. Avoid standing out in a negative way, like when you are you the last one to the huddle or the baseline when the coach. You can also stand out by practicing extra free throws or layups at the end of practice.
2. "Be a star in your role"
To borrow a phrase from former Bulls and Sixers Head Coach, Doug Collins, for a team to work each player must play their role. Coaches look for players who will have a team-first mentality, who help others score the ball. Especially if you are a rebounder or screener, have that be a focus in the tryout.
3. Smile & Have Fun
Playing a sport is supposed to be fun. Get to the tryout early and introduce yourself to the coachesWhile playing, have fun and smile. Say "Nice Pass" when someone hits you with an assist, or say "Good Shot" when a teammate scores. Coaches will notice that you are fun to have on the team. When they are deciding, that could make the difference.
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Parents often ask us about the difference between travel and local recreation programs. They fear they will miss out on the path. The answer is not always simple or clear.
- Given our experience with youth sports over the past twenty years, people also often: When it's appropriate time for your child to start sports. Answering when to start and what kind of program to choose are not always clear. There are many choices for parents to decipher.
- Our experience has been that at the age of five, kids are at school learning different sports and games in their physical education classes. In our programs, we start at age five and have found most kids are ready at this age. Travel ball may be an option for you for soccer at the age of seven or eight, depending upon your offering.
Every basketball fan knows the legendary lore of how Michael Jordan was once cut from Laney High School's varsity squad—and how the pain of playing JV ball propelled him to unprecedented heights. Now we have a new story for our times in Markelle Fultz.
The Sixers' soon-to-be #1 draft pick likewise tried out for varsity as a high-school sophomore and found himself relegated to the JV bench. But did Fultz sulk about the demotion? Did he let fate control his destiny? Did he give up? No way, Markelle was made of sterner stuff. “I never got frustrated, really,” Fultz told Sports Illustrated. “I love the game, so no matter if I’m playing JV or varsity, I’m going to do it to the best of my ability.”
A Day @ Matt Paul Summer Camps
Day One at MP Summer Camps @ The Meadowbrook School
The "Word of the Day" was COURAGE—and Meadowbrook's campers showed their courageousness every step of the way. MPS veteran Coach Rich and rookie Master Leader Gregory (his whistle always proudly at the ready) led their Meadowbrookers through a chock-a-block schedule of soccer, basketball, baseball, hockey, scooter hockey, gaga, tennis and more. It was a hot one out there, and so the site's beautiful campus offered two different shaded playgrounds for down time in between activities.
In 2001, I began coaching high school basketball at my alma mater, Chestnut Hill Academy. I remember the speech that I gave to my first team, freshman basketball, in that first locker room. I knew that day that I was beginning a new journey. I also quickly wanted to prove that I was a great coach.
Looking back, I didn't know what I was doing. I knew how to play and I knew what I wanted to accomplish, but didn't know how to break it down and coach other people to get those results. Since that time, I have had a lot of practice, and learned a lot through trial and error, and reflection.
In the fall of 2015, I began teaching Physical Education (PE) at The Meadowbrook School in Abington Township. The Meadowbrook School, founded in 1919, is a quaint community school that prides itself on great academics, small class size, individual attention for students and a dedicated faculty.
To be honest, my ego had a hard time telling people what I was now doing three days a week. The words, "I'm a gym teacher," didn't roll off my tongue with pride when people asked me "What's new?" Instead I led with, "I teach at the Meadowbrook School," but that often begged the question, "What do you teach?"
This year is the first year for being on the sideline watching my seven year old daughter play travel soccer. I can now say that I know the feeling of being a parent on the sideline with a child in competitive game. It’s a nervous, excited, happy, torturous feeling that if you are competitive person can make you crazy inside.
I began the season by myself on the sideline, a move I learned by watching my old man who rarely sat or stood with others. Recently, I have become more vocal on the sideline, and in my mind feel like I can help our win-less team of spirited girls play better fun and hopefully learn more soccer.
What's the best way for kids to be positively influenced? Who are their role models?
Last Friday, my family and I watched the SCH Girls Soccer team host the then ranked Germantown Academy Patriots. It was a thrilling game that SCH won 4-3. It was SCH's first win against GA in some time. All four goals scored for SCH by Junior Emily McNesby, who also plays basketball at SCH and has verbally committed to The University of Tennessee to play soccer. The SCH goal keeper made some amazing saves towards the end of the game to seal the victory.
Little brother Ibraheim Campbell starts as strong safety for the Cleaveland Browns this Sunday at 1:00p at Lincoln Financial Field against our Philadlephia Eagles. “E” attended Chestnut Hill Academy before playing and excelling at Northwestern University. At CHA, he starred in Football and Track and played on my freshman basketball team. We had a play called E, where we gave him the ball and told him to score. E’s big brother Rashad was the big man on campus at the time and an all-league football and track athlete who later excelled at Cornell University.
There’s a little girl in our camp this week named Finley. She’s five and a half. Before this week, Finley would have chosen to do things in her free time such as play with dolls, sing/play the piano, or color. She enrolled in this week of All Sports Camp with us, because she wanted to be with her Daddy. Finley is my daughter and of course that makes her my best friend.
Yesterday, she hung out with me after camp, as I spent an hour with two of our young coaches doing their own training. About half-way through the hour, Finley was looking for an activity and picked up a lacrosse stick and started to throw a ball against a wall. Then she picked up a basketball and began to shoot on the 10′ rim. In thirty minutes, she made six shots! She was very excited, and I was proud.
A few weeks back, we learned something new. We learned something new because we did something new and completed a week of camp at the Salvation Army Kroc Center in the Hunting Park section of Philadelphia. Frankly, it was uncomfortable.
Each morning, as we waited to greet campers as they arrived with their parents in carline, I noticed a difference in the music that I could hear played in each car. On Tuesday, we began integrating our camp with the camp and church groups that were also using the amazing facility- a $70M space. We asked our older Matt Paul Sports kids-half suburb and half city-to compete against the Kroc camp kids who had been training together for several weeks. There was some hesitation and trepidation–from players and coaches alike! However, after a few timeouts, our kids settled down and simply played and did well. As I think about the purpose and mission of the Kroc Center, funded initially by the founders of McDonalds, I know they were smiling down on the environment that they’ve created for these families, all of them.
This week at Matt Paul Sports Camp, we’re focused on the teachings of the legendary UCLA basketball coach John Wooden.
Here is one of our favorite quotes of his:
“Talent is God-Given. Be Humble. Fame is man-given. Be Grateful. Conceit is self-given. Be Careful. Failure to prepare is preparing to fail.”
Today’s focus is preparing for each day by setting goals. We began today with a discussion about goals- contemplating questions such as “what IS a goal?” and “what makes a good goal?” We discussed both short term and long term goals. Campers and coaches broke into groups to discuss and now, all campers and coaches have an index card with a life goal on one side and a TODAY goal on the other. Two of our coaches, Coaches Grace and Max, led the discussion and taught the kids about SMART goals. SMART goals are Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, and Timely.